Most of the groups listed here are for married men who are questioning their sexuality and/or considering coming out. Gay Dad groups are included because they are likely to contain men who have been in straight marriages.

Groups that welcome all bi and gay men and groups for both bi men and bi women are not listed. These groups are common and can usually be found at local LGBTQ centers. You can search for a center near you HERE.

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Illinois

Chicago Gay & Bi Married Men's Support Group (Chicago)
The Chicago Gay and Bisexual Married Men’s Support Group (ChiMMG) is a confidential discussion and support group for Chicago area men in heterosexual relationships that identify as gay or bisexual. The group is diverse, ranging from married men or those in a relationship with a woman, committed to preserving and improving their relationships, to those who have recently separated or divorced. The objective of the group is to provide a safe forum for making lasting, supportive, platonic friendships with other like men in a non-sexual environment. ChiMMG meets twice a month on the 1st Friday and 3rd Thursday of the month at 8:30pm. We meet at the Church of the Three Crosses located at 333 west Wisconsin, Chicago Il 60614.
1 1/2 block west of Lincoln ave, and equal distance between Armitage and North Ave. Wisconsin is a one way westbound street. This group also has a Yahoo group which you can see here.

Married Gay/Bi Men (DuPage County)
This is a support group for Married Gay/Bi Men interested in seeking support and understanding to deal with their personal situations. We are open to presently married, separated, divorced or widowed men of all ages. We have changed the group from an attend meeting medium to a yahoo internet posting medium.

Bi Guys (Urbana, Champaign County)
Bi Guys is an adult social/support group for men who are bisexual, questioning or identify themselves as pansexual, fluid, polysexual, omnisexual or plurisexual.  The group meets at 6:30 p.m. on the first Thursday of each month and is dedicated to discussion and support in a relaxed and informal atmosphere with topics ranging but are not limited to: navigating current romantic and future relationships, developing friendships within the community, coming-out, and bi-phobia. Some meetings may include social and educational activities which may include watching LGBTQ* themed movies, playing games and organizing potlucks. In addition, group members may get together to socialize outside the regular meetings for dinner, movies, community events and more.  Meeting updates and plans and resources including articles, websites, news items, and community events will be be sent out by e-mail and posted to our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/groups/biguy/. The group is aimed at all individuals over 18.  Meetings are in Urbana.

Minnesota

Married Men's Group (Minneapolis)
Since 1991 the HIM Program has offered an educational and support program for men who are married to women and also attracted to men. The group is held regularly once per month. Confidentiality is of the utmost importance, and every guy interested in participating must go through a pre-screening process with HIM Program staff to discuss the rules of the group, answer questions about the group, and then disclose location and times of the meeting.  Email contact: him@co.hennepin.mn.us and website.

Minnesota Gay & Bi Fathers and Husbands Group (Twin Cities)
Over the years, the Minnesota Gay & Bi Fathers and Husbands Group has addressed needs shared by gay and bi men who are husbands and fathers.  Our group provides men with a safe and protective place where they can openly discuss hopes, fears, and challenges related to their well-being and the well-being of their families. The group's mission is to help gay and bi men who are husbands and fathers develop positive, supportive and rewarding relationships with other men who share similar backgrounds and experiences.
The group has two main venues: a monthly meeting held generally on the fourth Saturday morning of the month; and various social activities.  Visit their website for more information.

Missouri

Gay and Married Men's Association - St Louis (St Louis)
We are a peer support group for men who identify themselves as gay, bisexual, or otherwise attracted to men and are now or have been in a relationship with a woman, are contemplating a relationship, or have related questions or problems.  Some members are in satisfying, conventional marriages, some in less happy ones.  Some are separated or divorced; some have lovers.  Some have never had a sexual experience with a man, and some have   worked   out   unique   living arrangements.  Some have had free and open discussions with their spouses and children.  Others have never spoken to anyone about their feelings.   All are welcome and should find among us others who share their experience. GAMMA has no official party line.  It neither encourages nor discourages its members from continuing or forming relationships with their wives or other women.  Rather, it seeks to assist each man in finding his own best road to travel in life.  Much of this is accomplished through open, candid, and sympathetic sharing of thoughts, experiences and feelings.  GAMMA meets the second and fourth Thursdays of each month. For more details go to Where We Meet.  Meetings are typically open, sharing discussions facilitated by experienced members of the group.  Typically, the group meetings are attended by five to ten men so there is ample opportunity for each man to talk about the issues challenging him, if he so desires.  For additional information, visit their website.

Oklahoma

Men Coming Out Later in Life (Oklahoma City)
If you are a man who has or is considering coming out later in life, this group is for you!  Come and share your experiences, fears and the freedom of being yourself.  You will find a very supportive atmosphere in this group.  Meetings are every Thursday at 6pm.  Visit this website for more information.

Texas

Dallas Married Men's Group (Dallas)
A confidential discussion and support group for Dallas area men in heterosexual relationships that identify as gay or bisexual. The group is diverse, ranging from married men or those in a relationship with a woman, committed to preserving and improving their relationships, to those who have recently separated or divorced. The objective of the group is to provide a safe forum for making lasting, supportive, platonic friendships with other like men in a non-sexual environment. Visit their website for more information.

Fathers First Houston (Houston)
This group is for gay men in Houston who are married, separated, or divorced fathers. Weekly informal support meetings concentrate on issues concerning children, adolescents, spouses, ex-spouses, divorce, step-families, coming-out, and relationships. The group meets at 7:30 PM every Monday (except for holidays) in the palor of Grace Lutheran Church, 2515 Waugh Dr. (Waugh at Missouri, two blocks west of Montrose Blvd.). The parlor entrance is a red door on the Waugh side of the building (not the main church entrance).  Email contact: gayfathersofhouston@yahoogroups.com and website.

Wisconsin

Men's Coming Out Group (Madison)
This is a closed group that meets weekly on Wednesday nights for 10 weeks. The purpose of the group is to offer support to men who are dealing with the realization they are not heterosexual and how that affects their everyday lives and to support those people. The group will identify and discuss the stages of coming out and explore topics such as how to deal with one’s own feelings about coming out, family members, physical and sexual safety, legal rights and discrimination, and more. Future meetings may be set up on a needed basis.  Email contact: rogerbadger@msn.com and website.

Madison Area Gay/Bi Fathers Group (Madison)
The Madison Area Gay/Bi Fathers group has been active in Madison and surrounding communities since 1984. Our membership represents a broad spectrum of gay and bisexual men who have children: some with young children, some with adult children and some with grandchildren.  Email contact: toooldforthis@tds.net and website.

Milwaukee Gay & Bisexual Father's Group (Milwaukee)
A support for Gay and bisexual fathers on the second and fourth Thursdays from 7-8:30 PM.  Email contact: jaxxcathedral@hotmail.com and website.

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